MISTAKE

Hear me out before reading, this topic may not seem pleasing and interesting but I wanted to write on this since it is something that one should give a thought to and keeping it in mind, I would like to make you think about it for once.

So here is something that kept me thinking and likewise, I would like to share my thoughts and opinions on this, and it is totally fine to have your own perspective and viewpoint, also forgive me if something offends you.

By the way, do you remember the time when you did not do something correctly or not right and perhaps made a blunder in an assignment, which was very important and felt like there was no solution and the world would end?!! And you were like "oh.. my gosh... I am so done, what would I do now?!" I mean Hellow... readers I am sure we all have done something like that to some extent unknowingly and must be like WHAT KIND OF MISTAKE DID I DO? HOW COULD I BE SO DUMB AND NOT REALIZE IT? or MORE LIKE IT'S ALL MY FAULT, it's my mistake ,all my MISTAKE.


Mistake,  which is made to be "THE MISTAKE"! C'mon, let's accept the fact that we all do make mistakes, and making mistakes is not committing a sin. WE ARE HUMANS and we tend to do it so. Let's be wiser and look at things more practically, let's not only visualize but also analyze. Every problem comes with a solution and therefore being civilized humans of the 21st century, let's look at solutions and not focus on mistakes. If focusing on mistakes could make things better, well that would be a good news since it might be easier to do so but Hey! Wake up and face the reality.

We often end up talking about things like self-love but do we actually practice it? Do we?? Bet you there must be at least one thing that you did and weren't happy about it and thought was a mistake, or unintentionally you ended up doing something that hurted someone. Since I use the term remember and henceforth using it again let me make one thing clear, everything you do has a solution that could be the alternative, and yes try making up for the things that went wrong or not right for you at least instead of repeating it for one last time and ending up doing it for the zillionth time. A mistake is something when someone keeps repeating and does not try to correct and move forward without learning a lesson from it. 

Learning from a mistake we committed and making it right makes us wiser. There is nothing as such as a big mistake or a small mistake, a mistake is a mistake. A mistake cannot be measured by how much wrong we have done, it is simply just not right in one's point of view but might be right in others. So basically not everything we do is a mistake.


ACCEPTANCE of doing something wrong or using the term "mistake" is a step that helps you grow on a mental level, where you look at things in a different perspective and start looking for a solution and not only that it also makes you a better human. So STOPP... putting your blame on others, it wouldn't just be good for others but you as well, so be SELFISH for things like this. But also while practicing this never and I MEAN NEVER EVER forget to practice self-love because we are looking at a point where we learn to accept our mistakes, analyze them, look for solutions and try to correct them and not repeat them again. 

                            - So accepting of mistake should not go hand in hand with degrading oneself but practicing self-love.


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